I envy Kevin. My
brother, Kevin, thinks God lives under his bed. At least that's what I
heard him say one night.
He was praying out loud in his dark bedroom,
and I stopped to listen, 'Are you there, God?' he said. 'Where are you?
Oh, I see. Under the bed...'
I giggled softly and tiptoed off to my own
room. Kevin's unique perspectives are often a source of amusement. But
that night something else lingered long after the humor. I realized for
the first time the very different world Kevin lives in.
He was born 30 years ago, mentally disabled as
a result of difficulties during labor... Apart from his size (he's
6-foot-2), there are few ways in which he is an adult.
He reasons and communicates with the
capabilities of a 7-year-old, and he always will. He will probably
always believe that God lives under his bed, that Santa Claus is the one
who fills the space under our tree every Christmas and that airplanes
stay up in the sky because angels carry them.
I remember wondering if Kevin realizes he is
different. Is he ever dissatisfied with his monotonous life?
Up before dawn each day, off to work at a
workshop for the disabled, home to walk our cocker spaniel, return to
eat his favorite macaroni-and-cheese for dinner, and later to bed.
The only variation in the entire scheme is
laundry, when he hovers excitedly over the washing machine like a mother
with her newborn child.
He does not seem dissatisfied.
He lopes out to the bus every morning at 7:05,
eager for a day of simple work.
He wrings his hands excitedly while the water
boils on the stove before dinner, and he stays up late twice a week to
gather our dirty laundry for his next day's laundry chores.
And Saturdays - oh, the bliss of Saturdays!
That's the day my Dad takes Kevin to the airport to have a soft drink,
watch the planes land, and speculate loudly on the destination of each
passenger inside. 'That one's goin' to Chi-car-go! ' Kevin shouts as he
claps his hands.
His anticipation is so great he can hardly
sleep on Friday nights.
And so goes his world of daily rituals and
weekend field trips.
He doesn't know what it means to be discontent.
His life is simple.
He will never know the entanglements of wealth
of power, and he does not care what brand of clothing he wears or what
kind of food he eats. His needs have always been met, and he never
worries that one day they may not be.
His hands are diligent. Kevin is never so happy
as when he is working. When he unloads the dishwasher or vacuums the
carpet, his heart is completely in it.
He does not shrink from a job when it is begun,
and he does not leave a job until it is finished. But when his tasks are
done, Kevin knows how to relax.
He is not obsessed with his work or the work of
others. His heart is pure.
He still believes everyone tells the truth,
promises must be kept, and when you are wrong, you apologize instead of
argue.
Free from pride and unconcerned with
appearances, Kevin is not afraid to cry when he is hurt, angry or sorry.
He is always transparent, always sincere. And he trusts God.
Not confined by intellectual reasoning, when he
comes to Christ, he comes as a child.. Kevin seems to know God - to
really be friends with Him in a way that is difficult for an 'educated'
person to grasp. God seems like his closest companion.
In my moments of doubt and frustrations with my
Christianity, I envy the security Kevin has in his simple faith.
It is then that I am most willing to admit that
he has some divine knowledge that rises above my mortal questions.
It is then I realize that perhaps he is not the
one with the handicap. I am. My obligations, my fear, my pride, my
circumstances - they all become disabilities when I do not trust them to
God's care.
Who knows if Kevin comprehends things I can
never learn? After all, he has spent his whole life in that kind of
innocence, praying after dark and soaking up the goodness and love of
God.
And one day, when the mysteries of heaven are
opened, and we are all amazed at how close God really is to our hearts,
I'll realize that God heard the simple prayers of a boy who believed
that God lived under his bed.
Kevin won't be surprised at all!
When you receive this, say a prayer. That's all
you have to do. There is nothing attached. This is powerful.
Just send this to four people and do not break
this, please. Prayer is one of the best free gifts we receive. There is
no cost, but a lot of rewards.
IN LOVING
HONOR |
Kevin's
Sister |
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